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The perfect song at a much-needed time

Posted by Vanessa on Jul 10, 2009 in Life's Little Pleasure

I love few things more than when you connect a memory so significantly to a song that each time you hear it you automatically go right back to that moment. The other day, I was driving to a meeting in Downtown Scottsdale and was fishing through my CDs in my car. My car is usually a disaster created by a five year old little girl and not enough time. CDs are generally everywhere. They’re there for the time when I can’t find my iPod in my purse. Sometimes, life just gets like that.

About six years ago, I had taken a trip to Zihuatanejo, Mexico with my whole family. Mom, Dad, sister, sister’s then husband, me, my now ex-husband. It must have been about the third day we were there. My ex-husband and Dad went on a fishing excursion and the rest of us decided to go out to a more secluded beach called Playa Las Gatas. You have to go downtown and hop a “water taxi,” which is basically a panga, to get there. We were the first ones on the beach and we found a nice spot at a beach restaurant and plopped our stuff down.

The owner’s name was Jorge and he had a very sweet 3 year old son. Apparently, Jorge’s restaurant partner had fallen extremely ill the day before and he was not able to go into town for his supplies. Jorge needed a boat to come out and bring him things for the day. My mom, sister and brother-in-law had gone down the beach to do some shopping and I stayed back to hold down the fort. Jorge, not knowing me from Adam, asked if I could just keep an eye on his son’s whereabouts while he unloaded. I was happy to. Read more…

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Life’s Little Pleasure: Nothing to do and all day to do it.

Posted by Vanessa on Jul 3, 2009 in Kids, Life's Little Pleasure

I am an overextender. An overachiever. Completely Type A. I have 207 hours of vacation time accrued and 323 hours of sick leave. It’s ridiculous. What it equates to is me not taking time for myself. But, ahhhhh, today. Today is a “holiday.” This is a prescription for laziness. And I’m going deep.

These days fall in our laps. Holidays where there are no pressures. I don’t have to go buy someone a 4th of July present or decorate my house. I’ll be having house guests tomorrow but unless my pool suddenly fills with cement, there should be no stress. My 5 year old daughter, Caroline, is off from summer camp today. Good times.

So I have big plans to do squat. I have been looking forward to my day of nothing for a long time. Oh, I have stuff I could do. Believe me. I’m just choosing to relish in doing nothing. I’m going to play. I’m going to act like I’m on summer vacation. I’m actually not even out of bed yet… Read more…

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