Tip of the Week: Find your people
Yesterday I had a small BBQ for the 4th. Really small, there were 5 of us, a mess of food and a ludicrous amount of margaritas. We spent most time time in the pool talking and relaxing. It was the perfect day. Two years ago, it would not have happened. I had NO friends. Please take a moment to feel bad for me. Ya done? Thanks. I felt it.
The last months of my marriage I was horrifically depressed. I had gained 20 pounds, felt totally helpless and had shut out all of my friends. When I got divorced I had to rebuild my whole life really. The first year I dated someone for about nine months and that was the biggest part of my social life. When that ended I found myself again with no social life. I gave up on dating and just want to find people to hang out with. I needed to find my people. Read more…
